Paranoid or Not?
Can I start by saying I have never been the most trusting of people due to a couple of issues in the past but I am just worried this time I am right and dont know what to do.
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 months but recently there have been a few things that have worried me.She goes out more than she used to,we dont have as much us time and displays of affection are nearly not at all.
I havent really got a person who I think she could be going with but I just have that feeling.
Can you give me some advice as I really love this girl and dont want my inseure nature to interfere in this.
There is a reason ......
I must first admire your courage to write about this subject and admit that there is a reason you feel this and that you feel you could be paraniod which so many people automatically feel they are right and dont think their past events could be misguiding them.
In my opinion it is a good case of honeymoon period over and serious relationship beginning.When you start its all I want to be with you 24/7 and constant hugging and kissing and then after a while it slows down and that where the true love starts.All I can say to you is it sounds like you are in love just trust that this girl loves you the same and have fun with it.If anything will happen it will happen either way but for now enjoy what you becuase they are thousands out there that would love what you have.
If you need to talk more im just a message away.
It was good to help you Beta